Ja, het is confronterend... als je er voor opentsaat. Ikzelf heb er versteld van gestaan toen ik ontdekte hoeveel onbewuste do's&dont's ik had. Ik leek wel een dominee! Ik ontdekte ze door de kinderen, maar het punt is: je doet dit ook bij jezelf. Je moeder zegt het niet meer (dagelijks) tegen je: die heb je geinternaliseerd en nu zeg je het tegen jezelf. Dus ja, confronterend, maar ook een enorme kans om wat oude ballast af te schudden en meer thuis te komen in jezelf.
Přidal Sairish na Po 23. září 2013, 15:27:08 CEST
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Perhaps the pendulum will swing back to the want of good mannres. My children have been brought up knowing respect for their elders and good mannres, particularly in public. My mother never hesitated to take them out as they were always well behaved and sat quietly in public situations.What makes me sad is the lack of self-respect I see in this day & age of young women for themselves. I am by no means a prude but trashy dressing, vulgar language, public spitting and being extremely physical with one's significant other on the street does nothing to promote the image of being a "lady". Girls need to know that they will only garner as much respect from others (particular boys/men) as they show for themselves. This is a trend that I dearly hope to see changing. http://dpslakev.com vccujs [link=http://lppqmd.com]lppqmd[/link]
Přidal Oskar na Ne 22. září 2013, 18:30:46 CEST
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Love the rules - and maybe many of them boil down to the big one that kids aren't the center of the unrveise? My college students are routinely shocked when I talk to them about other cultures where respect must be earned, and where young people mostly aren't considered to have been around long enough to have earned it yet. My poor kids - I keep insisting on raising them so they'll be adults I want to know someday, with some of my more egregious students in mind as anti-models (on the other hand, I have had restaurant owners come out to congratulate me on well-behaved kids, simply because they act in ways that I would have assumed were the only option when I was their age!).I love the sweater - can't wait to see the modeling shots! http://qyuhwwiump.com ffctizhe [link=http://jbjefuma.com]jbjefuma[/link]
Přidal Alperen na Ne 22. září 2013, 14:38:23 CEST
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Ik vind de stukjes die je<a href="http://dsjllbjryjn.com"> scfrijht</a> geweldig,simpel en duidelijk. Alleen vind ik het niet allen van toepassing voor de opvoeding van kinderen. Zelf probeer ik er zoveel mogelijk op te letten dat ik tegen iedereen zeg "ik vind jou ...." en dat zegt iets over mij en eigenlijk niks over die ander. Het is dan mijn gevoel waar ik iets over vertel.Ik ben nu al nieuwsgierig naar je volgende stukje, en ik vind ook dat je hier een boekje over moet schrijven omdat jij simpel en duidelijk de dingen kunt verwoorden.Miek
Přidal Amir na So 21. září 2013, 21:36:14 CEST
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ah, que yo receuerde las faltimas ininsigas de oro y brillantes que regalf3 el Bare7a fueron a Franco como cambian las cosas, o no tanto.Por cierto bfinsigMia es un lapsus freudiano, un cruce entre insignia e infamia?
Přidal Riska na So 21. září 2013, 17:51:12 CEST
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curioso ver este foatrmo de publicidade. Este curta me toca de um modo curiso: ao mesmo tempo que sentia uma grande empatia com o encontro familiar, senti uma certa angustia por saber se tratar de um filme encomendado por uma empresa. Fiquei literalmente entre a cruz e a espada. Enfim em verdade ainda estou assimilando este tipo de "publicidade"
Přidal Andry na So 21. září 2013, 15:44:57 CEST
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This type of sweater is on my bueckt list, even if I do live in Texas and would wear it once every three years.As the mother of a very outgoing but (if I may say so) well-behaved three-year-old, I will say that the key to her learning good manners and conduct seems to be her father and I demonstrating those good manners with her. Please and thank you were some of the first words she used regularly because they are words we use with her many times a day. "N, please put this on the table." "Thank you!" We also have regular conversations about what is polite and not polite. I always praise her when she exhibits good manners and if she doesn't, we discuss that calmly, without yelling. I see some parents that seem to be afraid or embarrassed to correct or prompt their small children in public and it saddens me. If we don't explicitly tell them at an early age how to behave and show them through example, how are they to know?