Dank voor je woorden en leuk dat je scijrhft dat het niet alleen van toepassing is op opvoeding! Samen met Andre, mijn man, hebben we de rode draden uit al mijn stukjes gehaald en hij heeft toen de woorden 'ouders' en 'kinderen' vervangen door 'overheid' en 'burger' en vervolgens door 'manager' en 'werknemer'. Blijkt verbluffend mooi toe te passen. Hij is daar nu een stuk over aan het schrijven. Zodra het klaar is zal ik daar melding van maken. Wat betreft een boekje: dat zou ik graag willen! De stukjes liggen nu bij uitgeverij Christofoor, maar het is waarschijnlijk te weinig voor een boekje. Dus... er nog meer schrijven! Ik hoop op ideeen/ onderwerpen te komen door de reacties (en misschien vragen) die hier op het weblog gegeven worden.
Přidal Erica na So 21. září 2013, 18:06:43 CEST
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Lieve Leonne,als ik jouw schrijfsels lees, bierukpt me meteen een akelig gevoel: o jee, dat doe ik inderdaad, o god wat doe ik mijn kinderen allemaal aan? Daar kan ik erg op 'aanhaken'. En daar nu even over doordenkend, besef ik dat de onbewuste boodschap die ik altijd gekregen heb, waarschijnlijk te maken heeft met het altijd goed moeten doen,geen fouten mogen maken. De kritische houding van mijn moeder ten opzichte van zichzelf heeft zijn uitwerking op mij niet gemist. En die geef ik helaas ook weer door, zij het in mindere mate. Heel bewust probeer ik stelselmatig niet tegen mijn zoon te zeggen 'dat heb je goed getekend' maar 'leuk was dat he, lekker tekenen'. Omdat het om de ervaring gaat en niet om het resultaat. Maar o,o, wat is het moederschap toch confronterend...Liefs,Claar
Přidal Rock na So 21. září 2013, 18:02:50 CEST
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ah, que yo receuerde las faltimas ininsigas de oro y brillantes que regalf3 el Bare7a fueron a Franco como cambian las cosas, o no tanto.Por cierto bfinsigMia es un lapsus freudiano, un cruce entre insignia e infamia?
Přidal Riska na So 21. září 2013, 17:51:12 CEST
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curioso ver este foatrmo de publicidade. Este curta me toca de um modo curiso: ao mesmo tempo que sentia uma grande empatia com o encontro familiar, senti uma certa angustia por saber se tratar de um filme encomendado por uma empresa. Fiquei literalmente entre a cruz e a espada. Enfim em verdade ainda estou assimilando este tipo de "publicidade"
Přidal Andry na So 21. září 2013, 15:44:57 CEST
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While I wouldn't dream of aruging about the current poor manners of kids (about mine...they are polite in company, they are only horrors at home), remember when reading historical stuff....they wouldn't write these books if they didn't think them necessary, which means that the kids were *doing* all those things, routinely!For instance, we know that women were everywhere with the Revolutionary Army, because there are constant orders from Washington that women mustn't ride in the wagons, they must be clean, they must nurse, they mustn't drink, etc etc. Over and over....because they must have been *doing* all those things, else why the orders?But, there is hope...the teachers all report that a thing they like about teaching in my town's HS is that the kids routinely say "thank you" as they leave classes! No one knows why the kids do this, no one reports having taught them, to do so, but most do.
Přidal Deyvson na So 21. září 2013, 06:21:45 CEST
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This type of sweater is on my bueckt list, even if I do live in Texas and would wear it once every three years.As the mother of a very outgoing but (if I may say so) well-behaved three-year-old, I will say that the key to her learning good manners and conduct seems to be her father and I demonstrating those good manners with her. Please and thank you were some of the first words she used regularly because they are words we use with her many times a day. "N, please put this on the table." "Thank you!" We also have regular conversations about what is polite and not polite. I always praise her when she exhibits good manners and if she doesn't, we discuss that calmly, without yelling. I see some parents that seem to be afraid or embarrassed to correct or prompt their small children in public and it saddens me. If we don't explicitly tell them at an early age how to behave and show them through example, how are they to know?
It was only yesterday I was intlesud by a young man who was drunk at 4:30pm. He swore, screaming at me that he'd call the police on me and have me charged for photographing a flower in his garden. I live in a unit/townhouse complex and have done for almost 10 years. This kind of abuse is usually something I'd be scared of; but now now. I've seen this so often lately that I don't let it bother my anymore, as there's no use in being scared.What we need nowadays is to teach the children who are growing up in their teens through to their 20's that they are to treat others and their elders with respect - the kind of respect I was taught when I was growing up in the 1980's. My Grandparents and my parents didn't let me backchat or insult them. I was taught respect, to speak quietly, to excuse myself when I wished to be included or had something to say. There were rules that still stand today, but nobody takes any notice of them; and people wonder why their children run amuck when they've never taught them ...
It was only yesterday I was intlesud by a young man who was drunk at 4:30pm. He swore, screaming at me that he'd call the police on me and have me charged for photographing a flower in his garden. I live in a unit/townhouse complex and have done for almost 10 years. This kind of abuse is usually something I'd be scared of; but now now. I've seen this so often lately that I don't let it bother my anymore, as there's no use in being scared.What we need nowadays is to teach the children who are growing up in their teens through to their 20's that they are to treat others and their elders with respect - the kind of respect I was taught when I was growing up in the 1980's. My Grandparents and my parents didn't let me backchat or insult them. I was taught respect, to speak quietly, to excuse myself when I wished to be included or had something to say. There were rules that still stand today, but nobody takes any notice of them; and people wonder why their children run amuck when they've never taught them anything proper and real. I seriously think Deportment Classes should make a comeback, it would pull a lot of young people back into line.
Přidal Alvie na So 21. září 2013, 00:00:53 CEST
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Damn, I wish I could think of sotiehmng smart like that!
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